My sis added me to her cancer fighter group chat at Wechat.
There are around 100 over friends cancer & non-concer one, Chinese physician who also diagnoses with cancer and cancer survivors.
They shared almost everything and info will be gathered for that individual.
There is one lady who my sis mentioned to me, Maggie who diagnosed with advanced Breast cancer with 3negative. I don’t really study the meaning but I guess it is an aggressive type. She had treatment for 2 years but conditions was not expected and the cancer had spread to her other body parts. Doctor wanted to wait for the worst condition to prescribe chemo to buy time for her. So she stopped the treatment. It has been 6 years passed. She back for checks and those tumours are remained but not growing in size and number.
Doctors and friends was amazed by her condition as cancer has living together with her.
She wrote a sharing which I shared to my hubby. It was a fantastic and ever truth sharing. In Chinese, I will try to translate.
Another sleepless night, as knowing one cancer friend who had died of Metastasis. Not being afraid of such news but felt pain for her/him.
No one can guarantee for the absolute cure for cancer neither giving you a exact prognosis.
Cancer is a study and homework. I pledge that all of you please stop living in fear and loss. Stop finding best chemo drug, and think of cured after chemo or NEA.
There are cases where cancer is spreading even using the latest and best chemo drug.
There are cases where cancer is also Metastasised with strict restriction of diet and exercise.
There are cases where putting the worst preparation and go out live up their life and cancer is GONE!
Everyone is unique with our own values of life. To fight cancer fundamentally must be sincere to your own feeling and body reaction.
Do not follow any medication that treated someone and try blindly be it TCM or reject chemotherapy.
Many times it resulted delay in best treatment timing and there are really a lot of cancer patients who followed blindly.
Fear of cancer? Cancer is a priceless gift? Cancer is not curable? It all lies on how you judge it based on your own faith.
I am very thankful for its arrival. Cancer has greatly multiplied the value of my life.
I don’t even know when I might dying but I know I will do the right things in every single surviving days.
Because of cancer, I realized what is it for life, cherish, true love, trueself, value, fantasy, grateful, understanding, appreciative, contented, present, let-go, sympathy, enlightenment, change perspective, cultivation, accompany, forgive and time… Many more
I gained lots values in life because of cancer and I really earn from it.
I won’t waste my time to be lost and troubled.
I am really grateful that it is going 7 years of my survivor, I have live with cancer in peace.
I have no idea when my cancer would be metastasized but it is no longer important to me because in this 6 years, I have…
Live up my life, my value and my life’s greatest moment.
Giving you to live for 100 yrs old but without knowing the purpose of your life, living in stress and continue karma, it might be worst than me having good 6 years.
If everyone stay cool & positive and eventually you will be determined and cancer will be calm and stopped too. You may have very high chance of few years survivor! Not to being pessimistic, but there are times where ppl are dying in few years time not because of cancer.
Treasure every moment and live it up. Find out the root cause of your fear, accept it & embrace it then you can change it. This should be the best way.
Maggie has been a activist in helping the cancer patient by house visiting and talks. She said she is busier that before cancer day and she often to have her meal outside.
I learnt lots and be it cancer or not cancer, we should cherish every moment and accept ourselves.